++ NIAT KETIKA TRAVEL ++

Bila kita travel, tujuan nak nikmati keindahan alam milik siapa? pasti milik Allah swt..

kerana Allah Pencipta yang Maha Esa, 

Dunia, manusia, alam semua milik Allah swt.

tapi bila kita travel, bukan semua tapi segelintir especially wanita  yang pegi island,beach mesti nak pakai yg sexy, ber bikini, nak tunjuk body yang sexy, ada certain pegi ngan boyfried kalau in group which mix (M+F) itu lain kes tapi ni kes pg berdua je, kata ngan parents nak pg ngan member, end up jalan bdua je.

Cuba fikir, 

Kalau lah ajal kita masa ondway nak travel or tengah travel

Kapal terbang ada problem ker?

Sempat ke kita nak mintak maaf ngan mak ayah kita sebab menipu diorang, cube bayangkan ape perasaan diorg kalu tahu kita berjalan smpai overseas hanya dengan boyfriend kita,kita pakai sexy tunjuk segala ape yg tak patut dilihat oleh ajnabi. Tak malu ke dorg.

Sempat ke kita nak bertaubat, sempat ke rasanya??

Nauzubillah min zalik

Fikir-fikirkan, 

Memang dosa masing-masing tanggung

tapi sebagai islam, mungkin tak mampu nak tegur secara terangan, mungkin dengan doa dan harapan, terdetik hati untuk mereka berubah.

InsyaAllah

Bukan lah kata saya sempurna, tapi saya cuba bukan untuk jadi sempurna, tapi menjadi islam yg lebih baik dari sebelumnya.

Jadi, tetapkan niat yang betul ketika ingin travel, 

Nasihat ini juga buat diri sendiri.

InsyaAllah

Love, 

++ QUOTES : 29.APRIL 2015 ++

When I'm about to do something new which totally out of my forte..i tend to always easily get demotivated..

I am no a risk taker, I am also not good in dealing with rejection, I easily blown away with my emotional, negative thinking and also i always assume rather than try it first.

Well, its not something that consider as good thing if you WANNA to be a SUCCESS PERSON.

Dear me, 

Please be tough, please be positive thinking, please try harder, please please please don't quit before you try..

Love,

++ PASTI ++

yang PASTI itu adanya ALLAH, 

yang PASTI itu adanya kehidupan dan kematian

yang PASTI itu adanya dunia juga akhirat,

yang PASTI itu adanya syurga dan neraka,

yang PASTI itu adanya dosa dan pahala, 

yang PASTI itu adanya yang patuh dan ingkar,

Itu yang PASTI..

Namun

Biarpun kePASTIan itu telah tercatat dalam Kitab Suci Al-Quran

Manusia diberi pilihan ikut hati dan akal

Manusia diberi pilihan ikut iman dan kepercayaan

Dan manusia sering kali ikut kemahuan dan nafsu

Kalu PASTI kita mati disaat umur 100tahun

PASTI ramai yang membuat dosa kerana tahu masih ada ruang untuk bertaubat

sungguh ALLAH itu maha mengasihi dan mengampuni

Tapi Ajal Maut, Jodoh, Rezeki itu rahsia indah Allah buat hamba-hambanya

Kalu sudah ditakdirkan ajal kita pada malam ini, 

adakah kita sempat untuk memohon keampunan

atas kekhilafan dan keingkaran kita

Masyallah

Kerana disaat Allah berkata " Kun Fa Ya Kun"

Kita manusia berada samaada dalam keadaan kerugian atau keberuntungan

Dan berdoalah kita mati bukan dalam keadaan kita kerugian

Namun, diri ini juga tidak sempurna dan sentiasa dalam kekhilafan

namun jauh dalam lubuk hati

percaya

hidayah tidak boleh ditunggu

kita harus mencari hidayah

khuatir hidayah itu sampai selepas semuanya tiada makna

Jadi, carilah cinta Illahi kerana itulah cinta yang PASTI

Suami, 

Kita hamba serba kekurangan

Masih banyak ketinggalan

Pegang lah tangan isterimu ini erat-erat

marilah sama-sama mencari cinta yang PASTI

berdoalah agar kita dapat bersama-sama menjejakkan kaki

ke rumahNYA

Kerumah Sang Pencipta yang telah menyatukan hati kita, menetapkan bahawa aq adalah jodohmu

dan agar kita dapat menambah keimanan kita..

Moga janji kita, bersama-sama kita Jannah.

Selamat Ulang Tahun Suamiku Mohammad Safuan Bin Shafie

Doa ku sentiasa mengiringi dirimu.

LOVE

++ 7 THINGS YOUR MUSLIM WIFE WON'T TELL YOU ++

Most men have a hard time understanding women. Even a woman they’ve been married to for years.

One minute she’s perfectly fine. The next, she’s crying like a baby.
She complains about something but when we offer advice on how to fix it, she still isn't satisfied. 
After several years of marriage (and counselling) I've learned to not worry so much about what my wife says. Instead, I should worry about what she doesn't say.
With this information in mind, I've put together a quick list of things Muslim men should be aware of when it comes to their wife’s mind.

1. Above All, She Wants Your Love

This harkens back to a post I wrote a couple of months ago called “Love or Respect: Which Do You Prefer?”
In this article I explained that men desire respect from their wives, and women desire love from their husbands.
When a wife shows her husband less respect, he in turn shows her less love.
And when a husband shows his wife less love, she in turn shows him less respect.
And the vicious cycle repeats itself.
Stop this prophecy before it becomes self-fulfilling. Show love to your wife.
That’s what she wants. Love her despite her flaws and quirks.
And Inshallah, she’ll respect you despite your flaws and quirks.

2. She’s Bored

It’s the same thing every day.
Week in and week out.
Not only is she bored but she’s also tired.
She has to care for the kids and run the household and then pamper you.
Just thinking about doing that every day makes me want to crawl under my covers and hide. I can imagine how the average Muslim housewife must feel.
And let’s not forget about working woman. Many Muslim women have to work a full time job as well as hold a house down.
So brothers, I implore you, make your wife feel special. Give her a break.
Take her out sometimes. Surprise her with a surprise meal. Bring her favorite desert home.
Just do something every now and then to break the monotany.

3. She Wants to Be Complimented

Appreciation.
Everybody wants it.
No one wants to feel as if the hard work they do goes unnoticed or even worse, it taken for granted.
Your wife does not have to clean your dirty clothes. And she does not have to cook your meals.
But she does.
And she does that on top of all the other things in her life:
Working or going to school.
Caring for the kids.
Striving to be a better Muslimah.
Show your Muslim wife that you appreciate and are thankful for the things she does to maintain you and your family.
A simple “thank you” is a good start.

4. She’s Insanely Jealous

There’s a reason most women don’t care for polygamy.
Be very careful how you talk about other women around your wife.
I mentioned this in my book “Sex and Islam.” Don’t ever compare your wife to another woman.
Don’t compare her to some female movie star.
Don’t compare her to your mother.
Never, ever compare her to your ex-wife (or other wife!)
She’s wants to know and believe that she is the center of your universe. So make her feel that way.
Even the Prophet’s (pbuh) wives got jealous. Aisha (RA) even got jealous of Khadijah (RA) who was dead.
Expect, and respect, the same type of jealousy from your wife.

5. She Wants You to Help Her Become A Better Muslimah

If you haven’t seen it yet, I encourage you to watch this video I did a couple of weeks ago for Muslim men. In this video I stress the importance of men taking the role of leader within their families.
And that’s the problem with a lot of Muslim men these days.
Not only are they not being good leaders, they’re being led by their wives (or mothers, or other women in their lives).
Your wife desires and wants you to be her leader. And what better way to lead her than to be show her how to be a better Muslimah?
But you can’t show her how to become better if you’re not that great either. Therefore, you have to upgrade your Iman. You have to improve yourself and then pass it on to her in a gentle, respectful way.

6. She Doesn’t Like to Nag, But Sometimes You Make It Hard

It’s a common myth that women like to nag their husbands. That’s not entirely true.
Yes, there are some people (men and women) whom you can never please. No matter what you do, they’ll always find fault in something. Let’s be reminded of the following hadith:
Narrated Ibn ‘Abbas: The Prophet said: “I was shown the Hell-fire and that the majority of its dwellers were women who were ungrateful.” It was asked, “Do they disbelieve in Allah?” (or are they ungrateful to Allah?) He replied, “They are ungrateful to their husbands and are ungrateful for the favors and the good (charitable deeds) done to them. If you have always been good (benevolent) to one of them and then she sees something in you (not of her liking), she will say, ‘I have never received any good from you.”Sahih Bukhari
So, yes sisters should be careful about denegrating the things your husband does for you.
But very often, you Brother, make it hard for her to hold your tongue.
Perhaps you’re always finding fault with her and she looks for things in your character to get even.
Perhaps you’re not working (or not working hard enough) and she has to work to take up some slack.
Perhaps you’re just not that great of a guy.
Once again, upgrade yourself and give her less reasons to complain and nag.

7. More Than Anything, She Wants a Stable, Happy Relationship With You

Women don’t get married just because they think it’s gonna be fun.
They get married because they want a happy family life and they believe you’re gonna give it to them.
Outside of her religious duties, that’s the most important thing in a Muslim woman’s life. Raising a happy, stable, Muslim family.
The funny thing is, it’s very easy for you to give that to her.
Stop acting like a jerk. Be a good husband to her. Be kind. Show her you love her.
Don’t threaten her with divorce or taking a second wife. Yes, you have the right to do both. But using them as threats is inappropriate and detrimental to your marriage.

Trust in Allah, watch out for the tricks of Shaytan, and be patient with her. There’s nothing Shaytan would love more than to destroy your marriage.
See? That isn’t all that hard, now is it?

Souce : xeniagreekmuslimah.wordpress

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